Boys

A: Do you have a good friend who is of the opposite sex?
B: Not anymore
A: What do you mean not anymore?? Did something happen?
B: Yes. she became my girlfriend

Okay, so I posted this on facebook but seriously I think this deserves up here to be on my blog.

So I'm going to rant and this time what I am going to rant is about boys. You know sometimes I see girls who have boyfriends and they feel that their boyfriends don't love them enough. Sometimes it might be their insecurities but sometimes it might because their boyfriends are just plain unromantic. Sure, it would be like phase 1 : honeymoon period whereby you get all giggly when you wake up and so excited to spend time with each other. But when all these died down, some girls just don't feel it anymore and sometimes boys don't feel they need to prove just as much when they 'bag' their girl.

1. Surprises.
Sometimes girls just want to feel loved and sometimes they quit hoping because they truly believe their boyfriend will not be capable of those 'tricks' anymore since they already get what the want. IMO, surprises really change everything. I'm not talking about those godforsaken EXPENSIVE gifts, I'm talking about... mini surprises like chocolate (kinder bueno : egg), gummy bears, a fake flower, squeeze into the photobooth machines and get some ID photos with 2 of you guys in it.

You don't even have to buy too. Show up in places when she never thought you will. Like surprise her in the morning, cook her pancakes for breakfast. Really, they do wonders.

If we are talking about buying stuffs and you want to go all out on special events or whatsoever : Holiday. Yes, a wind down time when couples can chillax and be happy and excited about. A room in Marina Bay Sands cost 400bux a night but you can SAVE and give her a good time, bring her to the roof with the infinity pool talk all night or whatsoever. Or a holiday at genting! Bali, with all those water sports. Surprise her with tickets! Seriously, it will make the girl feel special. Instead of spending your money on good food, video games, scrimp and save for a special occasion for you and your girl. Make that effort and most girls will appreciate that.

2. Listen to her
Sometimes when the girls might be bitching and talking on a topic you have no interest in, prolly you need to find out why she is so mad/sad/upset over it. Listen to her, maybe she is insecured. Maybe she wouldn't be like this if she feels someone care. Maybe she just wants you to stop playing dota and really find out whats wrong with her and she had enough with hints. By noticing the little things she do or say can let you realise what might be the problem sometimes that you guys face.

And sometimes she just want somebody to tell her that they care for you and maybe not looking for advices. Maybe they want to hear is, 'You know what, you done enough. It's alright, I understand. Don't be so hard on yourself.'

Okay, seriously i hope some boys do realise what great girls they have and cherish them really. And if you're really not in love with them, let them and your ego go.